By: Comrade Amb. Kunle Sodipo FICSSM,MNIMN,ANIPR
January 11, 2026
A wave of grief has swept through River Valley Estate in Ogun State, Nigeria, following a tragic incident that underscores the dangers of silence in domestic violence. A man allegedly killed his wife, Ganiyat Ayanwale, in the presence of their three children, before taking his own life. This devastating event serves as a grim reminder of the urgent need for stronger support systems and community vigilance against domestic violence.
The incident, which occurred on January 8, 2026, has left the community reeling. Neighbours described the scene as distressing, with the children traumatised by what they witnessed. Ganiyat, a quiet and hardworking mother of three, was stabbed multiple times by her husband, Ayoola Ayanwale, who had a history of domestic abuse.
*The Dangers of Silence*
This tragedy highlights the dangers of silence in domestic violence. Abusive relationships often escalate when left unaddressed, and victims may feel trapped and unable to seek help. Ganiyat's death serves as a stark reminder that marriage should never be endured at the expense of life and safety.
- *The Impact on Children*: Witnessing domestic violence can have long-lasting effects on a child's emotional and psychological well-being. The three children left behind are now forced to grow up with memories of violence, fear, and loss.
- *The Role of Community*: Communities must come together to support those affected and demand action against domestic violence. We must create a culture where victims feel empowered to speak out and seek help.
- *The Need for Support Systems*: Nigeria needs stronger support systems, including accessible counseling services, safe houses, and effective law enforcement responses, to protect victims of domestic violence.
*Breaking the Silence*
It's time to break the silence surrounding domestic violence. Victims of abuse must be encouraged to speak out and seek help early. Let's work together to create a society where domestic violence is not tolerated, and where victims receive the support they need to rebuild their lives.
*Conclusion*
As we reflect on this tragedy, let's renew our commitment to promoting transparency, accountability, and good governance in Nigeria. We must prioritize the safety and well-being of our citizens, particularly women and children, and work towards creating a society free from violence and fear. The memories of Ganiyat Ayanwale and countless others who have lost their lives to domestic violence must serve as a catalyst for change.
*About the Author*
Comrade Kunle Sodipo is a seasoned professional with expertise in security, marketing, and public affairs. As a licensed security consultant and author, he leverages his skills to drive strategic communication and brand growth. His work focuses on promoting transparency, safety, accountability, and good governance in Africa.
For counseling and supports against domestic violence, please send an email to: kdrexafricanchild@gmail.com or call: 08033823808 or 08052606422
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